We consider the luckiest to be those who find a match for their lives at a young age and live their lives together ever since. For many, however, this path is not straight at all.
We long for love. We stop next to someone, but if we don’t look for him, we have to move on. Thanks to this, we can migrate from one connection to another. If we can’t stumble upon someone, we always yearn for a dreamed, imagined ideal companion.
Is it our fault that we don’t find the one we feel is right next to us? We know full well that no one is perfect. And in our relationships, in many cases, we are looking for someone who will complement us in our shortcomings, which we will experience in a way that we can work together and live together as a round whole. In other words, we feel that only by someone (of course, not by anyone) are we able to exist in the world, to prosper well. This is our immature attitude toward a relationship. Yet we have to experience in order to get stronger, to experience.
When life is already a little tormenting and love disappointments and breaks also contribute to this, we move more mature, steeled and we already treat relationships differently. We are no longer looking for someone to complement us, as we know very well that we ourselves are a whole. We do not expect our partner to solve our problems to repair our damaged self-confidence, but our mere being attracts, we want to soar and develop together with our couple. As a mature, this is how the relationship works.
Everyone is independent and all on their own, yet very often we use the term for our couple that we have found the other half of us in person. By doing so, we suggest that we don’t feel complete. Yet we must realize that our partner is not the half of us who is missing from us, but the one who makes us stronger. If we find our true companion, we will not lose our own essence. Next to it, we retain the same personality that we had before, we bring out the better in each other.
As a single, it is difficult to find a new party when we feel lost and want someone to pull us out of ourselves. If we accept that we are whole as a whole, we have a much better chance of finding love.
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