If you're still crying for the ex ...

Even if we decide it's over, we may be even more afraid of breaking up. Because our respect for the other can be that we do not want to hurt you. Maybe we are afraid of anger, reaction, loneliness. However, there is a point at which it is better to continue alone than to continue together.

It doesn't matter how a breakup takes place, of course. Who breaks and with whom? And a painful break up makes it harder to come back to reality and even harder to get into the world of getting to know each other. Especially if you already know who it is going to happen.

Many people are afraid of loneliness, of being alone. And after a break, they immediately dive into their matchmaking to make it as short as possible while they are without a couple. Not only do others know, but they also feel the need to break the break. It is also a form of mourning, as the past must be let go. A lot of common experiences, months or years spent together just don't go away. And if the couples let go of each other with a nasty separation, then they have to get out. You need to give your body, and especially your soul, time to regain your self, bring your self-confidence back, and feel the need to share your life with someone again.

It is too early to get acquainted with a breakup when you are full of grievances that work daily. The telltale sign of this is when you treat your friends, family, or perhaps even your coworkers with the spiritual troubles of the breakup. If you are lucky because you are surrounded by people who are honest and open minded, they can gently remind you that you cannot talk about anything other than your ex, like breaking up. By doing this, you realize that you either still love your former love or you haven't processed the break up yet.

Believe me, this is the better case. The family is the immediate medium who knows you well, and it does not hurt to sometimes be pulled up or pulled back to reality. And a treasure trove is the presence of friends who tell you not only beautiful and good things, but also the raw reality when you need it. It can be painful to live with hard words, but they can make you fall into place.

It's still better than diving right in after a break and talking about your ex all the time. Conversely, you wouldn't like dating if your partner compared you to a former sweetheart, or if you always direct the topic to your previous relationship.

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