February is not only the shortest ice of the year, but also a period of carnival, and on the 14th we celebrate Lovers Day.
Love can be celebrated at any time, but the Anglo-Saxon holiday has been conquering our fashionable country for some time now. Since it is a holiday that does not belong to our ancient culture, many do not even celebrate this day and others are directly opposed to it. On this day, lovers tend to gift each other with a little attention. However, love is not just among lovers, so anyone can receive a gift.
For those in a relationship, it’s important not to forget about each other, so Valentine’s Day can be such a great occasion, but you don’t need a special date for that either. Many people do not like this day because they consider it too direct that one day it is mandatory to show love for the other. Explicitly or implicitly, the little thing we receive from our loved one is fine even on the day of lovers, even if we basically don’t expect anything from that day. The obligatory holiday annoys many of us, yet we expect them not to be forgotten about us.
Love cannot be boxed because it can be different for everyone. Moreover, we can experience several depths, heights and intensities in our relationships. However, knowing this, the expression of love can be different. It takes time and experience to see our own lives more realistically. Looking back on our relationships years ago, we may be struck by the fact that thinking about the great emotions at the time, it wasn’t really love in the relationship. Yet how important it was then for us to get a trifle from our love on Valentine’s Day, plus we put just as much emphasis on finding the most appropriate gift for us.
In our mature relationship, we consider something else quite important. Of course, it’s very good for our couple to show their emotions, and it’s no problem if it falls on Valentine’s Day. The problem is when it is only on this day that they feel the need to show their love. What good is a gift if it's just focused on that one day ?!
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