Friends come and go in our lives, because some people just need to stay by our side as long as we both learn from each other. A life situation that both people have experienced and that keeps them together can be the basis of friendship. Over time, this person can slip away from us. There are people we like to remember as our friends, but we don't know them close to us because the relationship has flattened out. It's not that it ended with a loud slamming of the door or an exchange of words, but that we slipped out of each other's lives in beautiful silence. We can happily recall the events we experienced together, the jokes, we liked his personality, but he is not with us as a friend yet.
They say that in a relationship, both partners have to do something to make it work, as well as to make it go bad. It is no different in friendship.
Do you miss your friend, are you too far apart and can't even articulate why? The most likely thing is that everyone lives their own life and everyday life follows one another. So much so that you don't even notice that weeks or months have passed without you looking for each other. Well, that's how you can drift apart for no reason.
If you want your boyfriend and you to find each other again and have new experiences together, take a step towards it. Don't wait for him to find you. If you think of him and miss his company, there is no conflict between you, then visit him. He probably didn't contact you because he was busy, and maybe he'll be a little embarrassed if you knock on his door first.
And if the relationship has been restored, don't break it off because you don't make time for each other. Of course, everyone has their own problems and things to do, but friends are needed.
True friendship does not mean that you always agree on everything. Moreover, with the different points of view, we can convince each other that an event can be interpreted and seen in different ways. If we have a really deep friendship, then there is not much of a taboo. That is, it shouldn't be. Just like in a relationship: you have to "play" openly and honestly.
As an adult, the carefree life is over. Work, family, other commitments are all weighing on our shoulders. We have to accept that in our adult lives, our friends are not the priority, but our family, but sometimes we have to make time for them alone. This must be observed by both parties, so that relationships can be kept in balance and there is no danger that the friendship will end.
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