The path to happiness is not always paved with easy and irresponsible steps. Nor is it always easy to follow the rules.
Social expectations also put a lot of pressure on them. Especially for those who cannot keep up with expectations, either by themselves or outside.
We dream of adulthood in childhood, but once we are in it, we may not find ourselves confronted with what we imagined. Every age has its own expectations. Just as a child is expected to finally walk, talk, become more independent, as a young adult, independent living, working, and later, starting a family are the norm. But even if they find two young people and decide to start living together, the next step is not necessarily the blessing of children.
The family is incomplete without a child. So most of us live in happiness because their lives have been fulfilled with the blessing of children. However, several couples consciously choose not to have children. Their free choice, but in a society in which being without children cannot bring joy, happiness, are they condemned to eternal unhappiness?
From our childhood, we become socialized in the order of life that includes independent living, finding a partner, and family. Some people are given this only with great difficulty, others cannot have their own children, so they adopt them. However, more and more people are deciding not to have a child at all. It is not that this cannot be done healthily. There may be many different reasons behind the commitment to childlessness, but surely there will always be people around them who will regret it.
Everyone has the right to decide what they want to start with their lives.
You are in favor of having a childless child who chooses to be afraid of taking on responsibilities, of spending extra and of being allocated all the time, and cannot have his or her free time as he or she wishes.
Not knowingly having a child does not mean that you cannot even do with small children. In fact, you may feel very comfortable with your little ones, but you simply do not feel like you are missing a child. Having enough time to play with friends, family children and play is something you can do, and then leave the parents with no responsibility whatsoever.
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