As time goes on, we gain experience of how gracious life is to us sometimes, but it can show its downside in the same way. With the expansion of experience, we become stronger and develop.
Walking children at the very beginning of this journey may not always respond best to situations. We forgive them, as children, they are still learning everything. And it is not only the educational institution where the teachings are received, as the family, the home, is the primary medium for this.
As children, we waited much more impatiently for events we loved. Christmas, a birthday, was a long-awaited event, but as we approached the occasion in time, it was as if time had cammoged on lead legs. Because children are impatient. And the impatient toddler can even stretch the string with hysteria and rage. Don’t be surprised if our own child will react similarly in some situations. No matter how embarrassing and hated the child's behavior is, it is still a process of maturation, as it allows them to experience different emotions and be able to identify them. This is an era in children’s lives, yet they need to be helped so that the believer doesn’t stay in their lives but can handle the feelings well later on. This is because self-control can be developed, and in adulthood there are many benefits to being able to deal with emotions in their place.
For children, the primary pattern is provided by the parents, so it no longer matters how the parent responds to the toddler’s hysteria. If a parent becomes nervous about his child’s outburst of anger, then we can’t follow him, but if he always shows up angrily toward his child, don’t expect the offspring to handle it calmly and patiently. What does a parent expect from a child if he or she is always upset about everything? With this pattern, you stand in front of your child. The development of self-control in this case applies not only to the child but also to the parent.
Personality traits determine which baby can wait with cold blood and which reacts angrily. As adults, we already know how difficult situations life can present. No matter how much we want to protect our seedlings from all evil, that is not possible. Even if we try to spare them the difficulty, it can only get worse later on. Not only does you need to experience the good, but you have to face failure, anger, so that you can identify it later and handle what happens in its place.
Believing, an outburst of anger occurs in the life of every child, which is not a problem until he is able to process it more and more during learning and experience, to calm his emotions.
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