What does the appearance hide? What you really are?

In a way, clothes, make-up and hairstyles have magic, but of course they can also be a great disguise. Who wants to use it for what.

It is only natural to cover our bodies with various clothes. We do this not only for modesty, but also to protect our skin and health. It is also known that a good hairstyle dresses you up and is an important part of your appearance. In fact, our appearance has a great impact on our well-being, but we know very well that it does not reflect our inner problems. The opposite can happen.

There is a middle-aged lady among my acquaintances who dresses well. That is, for me, sometimes what and how he does it is a lot, but I always attribute this to the fact that we are not the same and neither are our needs. There's no problem with that. And I'll deal with that. If I had to judge her only by her appearance, I would immediately say that she is demanding about her appearance, but at the same time she can be financially well off, because she always wears high-quality curls and everything harmonizes with everything. Even at home when no one is watching. We don't know each other very well, but I've seen how he lives. Alone. This is not a reason for loneliness and unhappiness, but during a conversation things were revealed that put this person in a different light.

Although being alone does not necessarily mean unhappiness, it does in this case. He lives alone, even though he doesn't want it that way at all. She has nice clothes, but she gets the best (from a wealthy relative), because she wouldn't be able to do it on her own. His appearance is always impeccable, but his soul is buzzing, hurt, and broken.

Maybe this shocking experience for me only showed me that not everything is what it seems. In other words, not everyone is what they seem. This acquaintance put it this way: he tries not to show the problems and sorrow inside him and tries to cover it up with his appearance.

It's interesting because I've experienced the exact opposite with others. In other words, when someone becomes inferior in one (or even several) areas of his life, he loses interest in what he looks like and what he wears. Perhaps someone can even become undemanding simply because everything has become nothing. And, of course, there is the category of people who are demanding about themselves, but this does not mean wearing fashion and does not necessarily mean daily make-up either. Still, overall it looks sophisticated.

The only thing that came out of this was that there are people who try to hide the hard and serious evils of life with clothes and other accessories, while others, even in their appearance, only broadcast their request for help to the outside world. And there are those who don't act, they don't try to hide their problems, but they don't put them in the shop window either.

Our clothes and make-up products are tools for our disguises, but if we keep the balance, they only highlight our beauty and fulfill their function. This is the healthiest, because then we are on the path of making friends with our own body and life.

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