We can live in multiple relationships by the time we get to the real thing. Some move our bodies and souls and we get stuck in them for years, other relationships get very short.
In our encounters and relationships, we can live and experience many kinds. We can also consider it the stations of our self-knowledge and development. As they say, no one gets in our way by accident. Either we teach the person who gets in our way as well, or the meeting is necessary for us to learn something new about ourselves.
Physicality is inherent in relationships, but love is not necessary at all to build a sexual relationship with someone. Such a relationship leaves us with other traces than physical and spiritual coexistence stemming from deep emotions.
Love, wild passion, reciprocity is what most of us desire, even if we have entered into other relationships throughout our lives. When intimate emotions lead us to be physically related to each other, oxytocin, also called the happiness hormone, is released during sexual intercourse. The same hormone is released in the mother’s body as well after giving birth to her newborn. Oxytocin is the hormone that strengthens binding. It also works when we find a partner we feel comfortable with, love is mutual, and we decide to stay true to it.
Sexual desire can be increased in a person with emotions. If we haven’t had physical togetherness yet, it’s because we want to experience it, and if it was and was a good experience, we want to relive it. So during sex, oxytocin is produced in our body, but not always. That is, not all sexual experiences evoke such a pleasant feeling when lovers spend intimate hours together. The best example of this is the case of rapists, in whom the act remains like a nightmare and the accident hormone is not released even accidentally. It is not just sex that can mean happiness and the production of the hormone of happiness. However, even after love dies out, a marriage can be kept alive (to some extent) if sexuality is such a great cohesive force between couples.
A game of love
At a young age, everyone has loves, and if we are lucky, some will be fulfilled. In fact, it can even turn into a lasting relationship, but even after a positive sexual experience, hormones can fool you and suggest that it’s about love, when in fact it’s just a fleeting, good experience. It could also be that after a sexual intercourse, we feel like it doesn’t work and that’s all it was about.
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