Who do you want to believe is all right?

Yet dozens of lonely women testify to how good singles are. Surely this is how one who has emerged from a relationship that has been dying for a long time and living many tugboats will experience it. Constant disputes, avoiding each other in living together are not missing for anyone, so when it comes to breaking up, we almost bathe in the fact that we can finally be alone, we don’t have to avoid the other, we don’t have to please anyone. So it can go for a good long time, as getting out of a bad relationship feels like you’re breaking up a prison cell and finally finding yourself in the fresh air, outdoors again.

We need to rebuild ourselves, our souls, and perhaps rethink our whole lives. With a break-up, divorce can change our living conditions, maybe we have also changed our place of residence. It doesn’t matter what quality the breakup is and the start of a new life. If they broke up with us, it would hit an even deeper wound in the heart, as if, after discussing the problems, we come to the conclusion together that we have reached the end. Even so, it can be painful but more processable.

So loneliness could have been a chosen and joyful form, while it could be a torturous, constantly longing for love and companion. But even the happiest singles can be permeated by the wind of loneliness. Especially when we stray into the happy couples around us. Even our hearts are constricted. Put your hand on your heart and say it’s not like that.

Yet, to date, many singles who not only don’t live in a relationship, but are also really lonely claim that her life is okay. Who do they want to fool? They mostly do it with themselves. No one is weak just because they desire another person’s love, affection, physical closeness. Still, it’s hard to say that, since it’s a cool single these days. And in the uniqueness lies the freedom, the “just fit for myself,” that you don’t have to adapt to anyone. And how good it is.

But this uniqueness can also have a setback. Being unique doesn’t necessarily mean loneliness, but it can slam into it. And from then on, we can feel miserable who can’t find a partner who can bear it. It can lead to self-esteem problems and isolation if loneliness crosses the threshold of loneliness.

We also have to confess to ourselves once we get to this point. Outstanding in self-knowledge. It’s unpredictable what the future holds, but it’s a mistake to wait for someone to finally fall in love if we don’t like ourselves the way we are. We need to bring ourselves back to reality, to the present, to make us beautiful so that others can admire and share in it.

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